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Pen & Paper Roleplaying Central => Pen and Paper Roleplaying Games (RPGs) Discussion => Topic started by: AnthonyRoberson on December 21, 2011, 07:57:15 PM

Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: AnthonyRoberson on December 21, 2011, 07:57:15 PM
So, I posted here (http://www.trolllord.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=11801&p=181717#p181717) on the Troll Lord Games forums to complain about a defective ebook I purchased. I was a little surprised by the response, especially from Steve Chenault who chastised me for 'demanding' an apology.

Do you think my complaint was justified or am I just another Internet Asshat?
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: thedungeondelver on December 21, 2011, 08:03:00 PM
Quote from: AnthonyRoberson;496512So, I posted here (http://www.trolllord.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=11801&p=181717#p181717) on the Troll Lord Games forums to complain about a defective ebook I purchased. I was a little surprised by the response, especially from Steve Chenault who chastised me for 'demanding' an apology.

Do you think my complaint was justified or am I just another Internet Asshat?

The "I DEMAND AN APOLOGY! harrumph" bit was douchy, yeah.  But initially I think it was a valid statement.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Benoist on December 21, 2011, 08:05:56 PM
You demanding an apology AT LEAST!!!ONE! is a bit douchey, yes. Smacks of customer entitlement-rage. It's BS. You could have expressed the same complaint in more constructive terms.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: JamesV on December 21, 2011, 08:09:13 PM
The complaint: Justified. I agree with you point of view. I don't see why a good RPG ebook couldn't have plenty and properly working links.

Demanding an apology: Rolled a 1 for diplomacy? Maybe it's years of customer service work talking, but statements like that make people defensive, and in the world of complaints, that's counterproductive.

Save the venting for your buddies and in public focus on what's wrong and how that affects you as a loyal customer.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Aos on December 21, 2011, 08:11:04 PM
Fuck, man, the fact that you're even willing to consider the possibility puts you pasts 90% of the internet.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: AnthonyRoberson on December 21, 2011, 08:19:41 PM
Quote from: Aos;496521Fuck, man, the fact that you're even willing to consider the possibility puts you pasts 90% of the internet.

WOW! You guys have to be the most honest RPG forum posters on the Internet... Thanks kindly for the feedback.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: JamesV on December 21, 2011, 08:25:02 PM
Quote from: Aos;496521Fuck, man, the fact that you're even willing to consider the possibility puts you pasts 90% of the internet.

True.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: ggroy on December 21, 2011, 08:46:52 PM
This would seem like entitlement type behavior.

In a non-rpg case I'm aware of, I remember some guy I knew who demanded an apology from a store for selling him something he was not satisfied with.  (This guy was a younger relative of an acquaintance).

This particular individual was slightly "mentally challenged", and never really learned how to conduct himself in public up to that time.

This guy was a Metallica fanatic back in the late 1980's, but found he didn't like the "... And Justice For All" record.  So he demanded an apology from the record store for selling him a "sucky" record.  The store clerk offered to give him a refund, largely to get rid of him.  But this guy kept on demanding an apology from the record store clerk, but wasn't getting one to his satisfaction.  So this guy started beating up the clerk and punched the clerk in the face several times, while still insisting on an apology.  The mall security guards broke up the fight and called the cops.

This guy ended up spending a month or so in jail, where the court required him to apologize to the clerk and pay for the clerk's medical bills.  In the end, this guy ended up filing for chapter 7 bankruptcy and didn't pay a cent to the clerk.  He previously had tons of credit card debt and had very few viable assets other than a large record collection and tons of porn videotapes.  (He probably thought a credit card was like "free money", where he spent it on all kinds of stuff like concert tickets, records, horror and porn videos, escort services, sex phone calls, trashy women, booze, etc ...).
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Planet Algol on December 21, 2011, 08:58:44 PM
Quote from: ggroy;496539This guy was a Metallica fanatic back in the late 1980's, but found he didn't like the "... And Justice For All" record.  So he demanded an apology from the record store for selling him a "sucky" record......So this guy started beating up the clerk and punched the clerk in the face several times, while still insisting on an apology.  The mall security guards broke up the fight and called the cops.

This guy ended up spending a month or so in jail.....

Good grief! What happened when he bought "The Black Album," a shooting spree?
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: ggroy on December 21, 2011, 09:02:39 PM
Quote from: Planet Algol;496540Good grief! What happened when he bought "The Black Album," a shooting spree?

Good question.

I have no idea.  I have not seen this acquaintance since the late 1980's.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Planet Algol on December 21, 2011, 09:42:31 PM
"Local man accused of going on progressively more violent rampages that coincide with releases of post-Master of Puppets Metallica albums"
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: ggroy on December 21, 2011, 09:47:58 PM
I suspect this guy eventually cleaned up his act.

This guy already had a kid before he went to jail.  When he got out of jail, he was excited to see his kid.  The last time I chatted with this guy back in the late 1980's, he was talking a lot about his kid.  (He had lost custody during his short incarceration.  His ex-gf had custody).
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Benoist on December 21, 2011, 09:49:49 PM
Quote from: Planet Algol;496561"Local man accused of going on progressively more violent rampages that coincide with releases of post-Master of Puppets Metallica albums"

Black Album is shit. Ride the Lightning, man. Ride the Lightning.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: greylond on December 21, 2011, 09:50:44 PM
Quote from: AnthonyRoberson;496512Do you think my complaint was justified or am I just another Internet Asshat?

Typically, if you feel like you have to ask that question, chances are that you are... ;)

You have a point, but this is more of a customer review problem. In your position, I would have simply posted a critical review without the attitude.

Also, your experiences point out why I don't by ebooks on platforms like the Kindle. Plain PDFs are much better for handling links and graphics AND with I personally don't like having a device that someone else has access to, with the capability of disabling or changing features or even deleting purchases...
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Planet Algol on December 21, 2011, 10:03:59 PM
Quote from: Benoist;496564Black Album is shit. Ride the Lightning, man. Ride the Lightning.

After the last Red Box Vancouver game we ended up discussing Metallica; I was pleasantly surprised when one of the guys successfully pegged me as someone that prefers Ride to Master.
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Serious Paul on December 21, 2011, 10:05:56 PM
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Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: crkrueger on December 21, 2011, 10:07:49 PM
Quote from: Benoist;496564Black Album is shit. Ride the Lightning, man. Ride the Lightning.

Gonna have to blast some Creeping Death now.  :D
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: Benoist on December 21, 2011, 10:11:27 PM
Quote from: CRKrueger;496571Gonna have to blast some Creeping Death now.  :D

I'm blasting Call of Ktulu in my in-laws living room right now. :D
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: ggroy on December 21, 2011, 10:21:53 PM
Trapped Under Ice

;)
Title: Am I an Asshat?
Post by: IceBlinkLuck on December 21, 2011, 11:34:20 PM
Quote from: ggroy;496578Trapped Under Ice

;)

A friend of mine ran a Beyond the Supernatural game based on that song. Yes, it rocked ;)